They don't understand me, but I don't fully understand myself. I only know that we should cherish marriage and family, which is enough.
Someone asked this lady: Why do you feel that your marriage is happy?
She replied: This is still asking, because my husband corrected the mistake, I have forgiven him. Husband hurts me, loves me, and I love him. This is happiness.
Da Niu is busy thinking that her views are correct and clear.
There is no need to over-interpret the issue of marital feelings. Many things may have lost if you think too much. To understand yourself too thoroughly, and always can not let go of the entanglement of the heart, but will put life into a "formula", destined to become more and more injured.
I was impressed by the divorce of the woman who spoke that day, and her experience was embarrassing. After 4 years of marriage, she became bored with her husband and didn't want to.
Like many divorced people, the couple once loved, and later gradually found that they could not continue to love. She wants to go out of marriage and break with marriage to catch the next new feeling.
Due to the misjudgment of the future, she gradually lost the courage to pursue love after the divorce, she overestimated herself. Destroyed the happy marriage family, she did not get the happiness she wanted. If you regret later, it will be harder to go back.
Back to the topic of the article, what should a woman do when she feels that her husband and wife cannot continue to fall in love?
When Daniel is busy, he will talk about the marriage cases of these two women. Maybe some people with similar experiences will be inspired. There is a virtue in life called cherish.
Li Ping, 37, married at the age of 22. At the age of 35, Li Ping’s marriage had problems, and her husband was not good for her. He is always mysterious, often chatting with a person, and chatting until midnight. Li Ping wakes up many times in the night and always finds that her husband is secretly chatting and laughing, as if there is something happy.
When divorced 2 years ago, Sun Hui said this to her ex-husband: I have never loved you, and divorce is good for us. Since you have a woman worthy of love outside, I have found a man who is good to me. It doesn't make sense to go on. Divorce is good for everyone, give yourself some dignity, that man is many times better than you.
When the current husband asked her if you would regret it, Sun Hui felt like he had heard a joke. If she didn't meet the man, maybe she would regret it, but he found a feeling of love from the man, so he was divorced.
Today, the ex-husband already has a happy marriage and family, and she fell in love twice, and failed.
Three years ago, Sun Hui, who had only been married for three years, discovered that her husband had been in contact with her predecessor and often took her out to play. Sun Hui felt that love was hurt, he loved him so much, gave him a child, and he actually did this to himself!
After being known by Sun Hui, her husband vowed to seriously repent and swear to have no feelings for her predecessor, just a game. For the children and the family, the husband and the predecessor broke the connection. Sun Hui also forgave her husband, she still loves him, I am glad that my husband repented in time.
But not long after, Sun Hui met a man who always greeted her. The man had just divorced, and his mood was not very good. When chatting, he always complained to Sun Hui, hoping that Sun Hui would listen.
The more people chat, the more familiar they are. When a woman opens her heart, she will soon tell her story. I slowly talked to each other and met me. In Sun Hui’s eyes, he and the man met each other and he was too handsome.
Two years ago, Sun Hui’s husband discovered this. At that time, Sun Hui had fallen in love with the man and directly filed a divorce with her husband. She said that all of this was forced by her husband. She met a man who was consistent with herself and no longer needed her husband.